OUR FIRST FAMILY VACATION TOGETHER | What went wrong? | Destin, Florida

OUR FIRST FAMILY VACATION TOGETHER | What went wrong? | Destin, Florida

100 thoughts on “OUR FIRST FAMILY VACATION TOGETHER | What went wrong? | Destin, Florida

  1. ??? Your videos are just amazing … Love being allowed to get an insight in your life. You are part of my LGBT family. xxx

  2. Very nice video.l wish you can capture the low moments it's more authentic and help those who are still straggling.

  3. Que lindo ver Adam vc com sua familia , de valor a cada munuto com seus parentes pricipalmente com seus país , são lindos e um lugar realmenti belissimo. Fico emprecionada e com as casa vcs sabe aqui no Brasil ( São Gonçalo ) nem pença não ter murro alto estariamos em muito apuro. acho linda as casa ter a segurança , mis entendo e ontro mudo onde tem lei e organização. Aqui no Brasil Bernardo vai concorda com migo que essa frase combina . Que País e esse ( Brasil um país belissimo, ceio de riqueza naturais mais tanta violencia em todos os sentidos e variedade, beijão ao casal que amo e respeito e sua lnda familia Adam! su amiga YouTube.

  4. If you bury the pain, it will rise a monster. I should know. My self-condemnations which are just mirrors of an instilled set of "righteous" values from my early culture are best met by 1 John 3:20. "If our hearts condemn us, God is greater than our hearts, and He knows all things."

  5. Hi guys. Wow, you are a perfect couples. It is so wonderful to see you guys happy together.

    Do you plan to travel in Canada sometime?

  6. Adam, thank you for sharing your life (the good & the struggles)! No shame in showing vulnerability sometimes. It's what makes us human. You are lucky to have found Bernardo to share your life with. You will get through the hard times by leaning on each other when needed.

  7. Oh guys your together is so romantic best couple I love… Everytime watching your video??…have a good day and enjoy with your family

  8. Question.
    1) were you nervous filming when all of your close family members are there?
    2) do they know about your youtube channel and do they watch it?

    Kinda wonder

  9. Im crying by the end of it. I wish i had someone like how you both have each other. I met someone who I thought the one, but i had to let him go due to complicated circumstances. Now im just alone, wishing things were different.

  10. Lembrem-se sempre que você nos guiará sempre. Seus familiares são sua prioridade, mas nós somos seus amigos, reais virtuais e seguidores. Eu sei que lhe sigo porque no pior momento de minha vida conheci a sua história e a terapia que precisava veio de vocês. Adoro suas novidades e memórias diferentes. Respeitem seus familiares, mas aqui neste vídeo vocês são nós e nós aceitamos vocês como são. Se modificar porque seus parentes são preconceituosos, homofóbicos ou perversos, isso não é bom para nós. Se vocês seguirem a linha papai e mamãe, e vida de héteros deixa de ser nossos ídolos, nosso representante 500mil. Teremos que procurar outros. Preferimos vocês pelo amor que passam para nós, pelos beijos inconstantes, pelos seus de repentes. Por um ser americano e o outro ser brasileiro. "As vezes temos que desobedecer para transcender". Recife/PE-NE- Brasil, 10/08/2019. A. Cabralles

  11. Good morning Adam and Bernardo, last April I was assaulted, nothing serious but it brought out repressed memories from a previous abusive relationship that I thought I had buried. I had a major meltdown and if not for a good phycologist I would not be here today. My point is, I think it would be a great help for Adam to talk to a phycologist about what happened when he went through the conversion therapy. I learned so much about myself and how I had blamed myself for things I had no control over. I am truly a better person now because of the counseling.

  12. Str8 people have no idea of the damage they cause. They have created a world where gays need counselling and medication in order to survive… this needs to be examined. I'm picturing a massive class-action suit.

    On another note, I wonder if you two know about the "Old Gays Talk About"… series here on Youtube. Here is a link to one of their videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yHdbbLw0AtE

  13. Hey guys!! Love your videos and wishing you all the best. Random question, if you want to answer feel free no too. How do your parents feel now about sending you the conversion session?

  14. I LOVED the honesty and realness in this video! You both are such beautiful souls and thank you for sharing this all with us! I loved seeing you be around your family and I can relate to you so much Adam. I come from a similar family and I am also married now. You just have to take the good with the bad and grow through it as you said. Hugs to you both!

  15. I hope, Adam, that your healing journey will allow you to acknowledge the "therapy" for the abuse that it was. Your ability to forgive at least some of those responsible for that abuse is to your credit.

  16. Family things can be very hard and there is no time limit on how long it takes to get over or come to terms with bad things that happen in life, but things fall into place over time and you realise things as life goes along , you are someone to be proud of, talk with your hands love with your heart and follow your dreams 🙂

  17. This is my favorite couple on YouTube, it's amazing and I see how much they love each other, when I saw this video I had no hesitation in not subscribing and being part of this family.????

  18. Your family is the first I've seen like mine where men kiss men . . . smack right on the lips! Fathers, sons, brothers. Seemed so strange when we'd get comments about it or that it'd even be, "a thing." Many of my friends said they'd do that when they had sons and they did. They've said they wouldn't have it any other way, now, and rattled off many reasons it's made their relationships much stronger than with their own dads. Proud of you two ❤️–Jay in Seattle

  19. Love your videos! I'm from London and like your relationship, what comes across is how much you care for each other. Keep up the good work!


  20. Adam, as gay men most of us grew up with a lot of confusion, uncertainty, and self doubt. You had the added burden of conversion therapy. When we return to our home it is so natural that all these feelings get stirred up. But we can use those times to grow. Never apologize for being human. Your followers love the real you. Bless you and Bernardo and the love you have for one another. ❤️❤️

  21. OMG…You guys are AWESOME!! I love the video. I live in Destin with my fiance we love it here. I'm glad you both had great memories here.

  22. 2 years of videos seen in just a month! OMG and now? I’m looking forward for the new ones! Thanks for this amazing and emotional journey <3… Adam thanks again for sharing your past issues…believe me you’ve helped lost of young people out there telling your story…a big hug from Italy to both of you

  23. Adam, thank you for personal videos & posts about your family vaca & hometown these past few weeks. You & I have a lot of parallels in how we grew up, family issues, etc. I'm on vaca this week visiting my family, and today i was inspired to visit my old Baptist high school. Not a lot of good memories, yet I realized my classmates who accused me mercilessly of being gay believed in me at a time when I was heavily closeted & failed to believe in myself. Love watching you guys & your adventures ❤

  24. Great holidays! It's important to share and make memories with the family… Adam has a big family full of happiness and loving kids… I love seeing the dolphins in their natural enviroment.. I would like seeing Adam sharing with Bernardo's family and friends in Brazil.. I am very anxious for your wedding plans guys… you're the most adorable couple in YouTube… Love you… a big hug fromVenezuela

  25. Hola ????amigos que lindo video como siempre, compartiendo? lindos momentos, como siempre les digo me encanta la pareja que hacen?? y wow esos lugares, esa arena ⛱⛱por dios…aca en Argentina Buenos Aires todavia hace frio❄️❄️, odio el frio jajaja me encanta verlos les mando un beso grande a los dos y espero algun dia ver un comentario✅ ✅en alguno de mis videos si es que les gusta claro…seran bienvenidos…besos??

  26. Hi gays… Nice to watch your video again.. Thank you for your memories, and there is one of mine, i guess more for Bernando.. 🙂 just for your nice time together…

  27. Greetings you guys! ?
    Нарpy Angel's Day, Adam! ????
    Yes-yes. The most precious thing in life is life itself. Appreciate what you have. Proverb: "What we do not store, lost – weep" and "terrible is not old age, but lonely old age." If possible, you see your family and friends more often. By the way, holding hands to thank for a meal is not accidental, although this is an ancient custom. If it’s pleasant for me to see inside, when my friends and acquaintances cook for the whole big family every day, this is because we need it as in nature, for example, the lion pride hunts to continue life. Not because there are stoves in the kitchen from morning till night, but to thank this day that today there is food on the table. In the besieged Leningrad in World War II, they died of starvation. If you wish, you can watch the film "The Pianist" with Adrian Brody. I read your instagram. ? The uniqueness of each case. Love has no orientation. Meeting at the cafe.☕️? It is on this day, hour, in this place to see each other. I think that even at the time of conception by nature, a double orientation is laid down, but it manifests itself in life to a greater or lesser extent and, as it were, in case one plan leaves, the Second plan is replaced. Spare Cell. For a long time I could not solve the problem. Like this, if two heterosexuals lit a flame. Love is a phenomenon. It combines heaven and hell, and stress, and the eclipse of the mind, and a number of other ingredients. Feelings can manifest in any period of life. Sorry, I have my own philosophy. ?️????

  28. Wait you kiss your parents? Wow , I'm learning a new culture.. my culture just take our parent's hand and kiss it.. that's our culture

  29. Adam, a melhor terapia é falar, falar e falar… chorar até esgotar e só fazemos isso com uma pessoa que confiamos e amamos, é o tipo de coisa que não se publica, mas se divide com alguém em quem podemos repousar a cabeça. Voce tem o Bernardo que te ama e esta ao seu lado. Se abra com ele, perca a timidez dos traumas e se liberte daquilo que te magoa, você vai ser mais feliz. Os traumas de infância são monstros que cultivamos ao longo da vida. Se não podemos nos livrar deles, temos que aprender a faze-los trabalhar a nosso favor. Beijos no coração de cada um. E Bernardo… voce está muito gato rsrsrs.

  30. I nursed and cared for my husband full time for the last five years of his life. He passed away in January. I just wanted to write and share with you how much your videos have warmed my heart as I watched your relationship grow and deepen and to take pride and joy in the new memories you both make, as we did throughout our 38 years together. Sending you both my very best wishes and blessings.

  31. I have been away from you 2 all summer. Didn't have any computer access and I have missed so much. But am catching up now. And DESTIN is the BOMB! Best beach in the US… Hope life is treating you wonderfully…. Enjoy, be Happy and have fun! Sue

  32. I love seeing you guys happy together. Adam, Bernardo really cares about you, never forget that. He’s always going to be there for you, regardless of what happens. The way he looks at you says it all. The PERFECT couple! ❤️

  33. I think this trip will be remembered as a time of putting things in perspective in terms of healing! This had to happen and it just shows that love does conquer major obstacles??‍♀️?✨?✨❤️

  34. From someone who has benefited so much from therapy I say, hope to get past the pain of those 4 years and never forget what you suffered. I constantly express to young gay people, do not come out until your independent. Yes, We all have the right to be ourselves, but not at the cost of our own destruction. You should be proud of your forgiveness! Always remember, people will always forget what you say, but will never forget how you made them feel! I enjoy watching you both, because I’ve been there. Your both in the honeymoon stage of your relationship. Enjoy this part, but I promise that after this stage is the true love. No doubt, no question and no regrets. Love Ray O’Mara Poughkeepsie New York

  35. ( The break down )This video touch me at a deep level. In the spots no ones sees. The spots I hide.
    I did not fully understand what had happened
    but i can feel a soul opening and pouring out
    and this is just me…but i believe that there is where the magic starts to happen.

    Thank You for sharing and please do keep making deep stuff too for i need them too =)
    Much Love ???????

  36. Adam, I can so relate. I went through 13 years of reparative therapy including electronic shock aversion therapy. The effects that were huge and still is today and that includes two lots of major surgery on my oesaphagus for gastric reflux as a direct result. A 49 year marriage to my wife hasn't changed a thing. I've cared for her with MS for 24 years. Full hoist the last 7 years. I was a Baptist Pastor and missionary but not allowed to even attend church now.
    That is why I so appreciate you and your videos, watching them almost every day. Love you guys a lot. May the Lord increase and deepen your love for each other every day.

  37. as Ive said, wonderful… then today I found this….
    .. omfg


    stay to end please….. more work so needs to be done, and yes I did hit his bell button….

  38. Holy shit – I live in Leesburg – Silverlake area. New Smyrna is my fave beach …. shark attack capital of the east coast =)

  39. Adam, I hope you discussed your feelings with your parents, I'm sure the guilt they carry is almost as intense as the confusion, anger, and disappointment you feel. So many parents of gay children think they have failed them in some way. Parents turn to the church looking for a "miracle" … the miracle might be their child is happy, living life to the fullest, and embracing their sexuality with healthy attitudes.

  40. Adam e Bernardo eu sou um fan de vocês dois eu assisto seu vídeo no YouTube todo dia não perco nenhum dos vídeos amo vcs dois continuem sempre assim que vocês vão conseguir abraço pra vocês dois

  41. Stepsof2Foreigners I really inspired by your story, your love and your personality… my family is hard here. And I have met someone in Colombia. And I’m from Alabama here. Was plan on a trip to visit my novio in colombia for the first time. So I keep on watching what you guys have and it just inspired me a lot. My heart with you two. Hope to meet you guys some day because it is an honor to meet people like you and I don’t have friends like that. I am hoping to be like you two one day.. sharing memories with the person we like. I hope we can stay in touch. Y’all stories and memories y’all have is real. I want you two to keep on doing what makes y’all happy because I am trying to do that on my own without anyone’s help. I am not out of closet. But hope one day

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